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Read thoughtful responses to a wide assortment of questions from Billy Graham’s My Answer column and other resources.

Caregiving requires rest, prayer and help from others

My husband has a long-term medical condition, and I'm his only caregiver. I wish he'd understand how hard this is, especially when all he does is complain. He reads your column, so maybe you could say something about this.

With careful reading, you can understand the Bible

I started reading the Bible during my summer vacation, but I got bogged down after a few days and finally just gave up. I know it would probably help me, but how can I understand it?

Use your time recovering from surgery to grow spiritually

I had major surgery recently that my doctors say will take months to heal. I've always been very active, but I'm already depressed and bored because I can't do anything but watch TV all day long. Why is God doing this to me?

Desire to pray points to a need for God

I memorized some prayers in our church when I was a child, but I haven't been religious since then. For some reason, however, I've had a desire to pray recently, but those childhood prayers seem kind of empty. Can you suggest some other prayers?

Refusing to vote won't make the world any better

This year's elections will be over by the time you get my letter, but my wife and I are so fed up with politics that we decided not to vote. Our pastor said everyone ought to vote, but the Bible doesn't say anything about voting, does it?

God can use even our smallest gifts in amazing ways

I know we're supposed to give money to our church and to other worthy causes, but we're so deeply in debt that we can't even think about it right now. Will God forgive us for not doing this?

Helping grandson break free of drugs will take prayer and action

Our daughter just told us their son is deeply into drugs. He's intelligent and had a bright future ahead of him, but now he's dropped out of college and they aren't even sure where he is. Why would anyone like this get into drugs? It doesn't make sense.

Only Christ, not a cult, is worthy of our commitment

My wife has joined a religious group that's really changed her. Now she says she has to divorce me because I'm not a member. What's gotten into her? I don't know anything about cults, but do you think this might be one?

Even when the world seems dark and evil, we can trust God's goodness

Is God limited in any way? Are there some things God can't do? I sometimes wonder about this, because if God is all-powerful, then why doesn't He stop all the evil things that go on in the world?

God's love and forgiveness are infinite

Why does God offer to forgive us, no matter how bad we've been? I don't see why God even puts up with us, since we've rejected Him and broken every law He ever gave us. If I were God, I think I'd just do away with the human race.

Let Thanksgiving mark a hopeful new beginning in your life

Some friends invited me to their apartment for Thanksgiving this year, but I refused. I've had a miserable year -- death of my husband, financial problems, sickness. It would be hypocritical for me to say I'm thankful. You'll probably disagree, but can you understand why I feel this way?

Christians express gratitude for their blessings on Thanksgiving

I'm a university student from another country, and in our society we don't have anything like your holiday of Thanksgiving. Does it have something to do with your Christian religion?