Answers

Read thoughtful responses to a wide assortment of questions from Billy Graham’s My Answer column and other resources.

My wife caught me looking at some stuff on the Internet, and since then we've had a very rocky time of it.

A few months ago, my wife caught me looking at some stuff on the Internet that I suppose you'd call kind of pornographic, and since then we've had a very rocky time of it. I've tried to tell her it doesn't mean anything and I still love her, but she won't listen. What can I do?

Our son has left his wife and says he's in love with another woman, and that God led them to each other. But how can that be right?

How can you convince someone that what they are doing is wrong, when they claim God told them to do it? Our son has left his wife and says he's in love with another woman, and that God led them to each other. But how can that be right?

What is the difference between the Holy Ghost and the Holy Spirit?

What is the difference between the Holy Ghost and the Holy Spirit? I've heard both terms all my life, but I've never asked my pastor or anyone else about it because I didn't want to appear stupid.

Churches are just human institutions, and they don't have any place in my understanding of God.

I don't have any use for organized religion. I have my own form of spirituality, and I don't need some preacher or congregation to help me get in touch with the Divine. Churches are just human institutions, and they don't have any place in my understanding of God.

I guess my wife and I have just slowly drifted apart over the years, and now I don't know what to do about it. Is it too late?

I guess my wife and I have just slowly drifted apart over the years, and now I don't know what to do about it. Sometimes we won't even say a dozen words to each other over dinner. Maybe you can give me some suggestions. Or is it too late?

I honestly believe I gave my life to Jesus after one of your telecasts, but I don't really feel any different. Have I been deceiving myself?

How can I know if I'm really a Christian? I honestly believe I gave my life to Jesus a few months ago after one of your telecasts, but I'm not a very emotional person and I don't really feel any different. Have I been deceiving myself or something?

I'm one of those "baby boomers" you read about who's almost 60, and I have to admit I don't like it.

I'm one of those "baby boomers" you read about who's almost 60, and I have to admit I don't like it. Not only do I not like growing older, but suddenly I realize my wife and I have been having a good time instead of saving enough for retirement. I don't have a question, I guess, but I find all this kind of sobering.

Why didn't someone tell me how hard it is being a parent?

Why didn't someone tell me how hard it is being a parent? We have three children, and it seems like all I do all day long is try to keep them from fighting. Will it ever get any better?

I have an aunt who cares more for her dogs and cats than she does for her family. What would you say to someone like that?

I know this sounds strange, but I have an aunt who cares more for her dogs and cats than she does for her family, or at least that's the way it seems to most of us. What would you say to someone like that?

Why is evil so strong? I don't understand why God allows it.

Why do some people have an easy life although they don't have anything to do with God, while others who believe in God and try to do what's right have a hard time of it? Why is evil so strong? I don't understand why God allows it.

What do you think is the greatest social problem in the world today?

What do you think is the greatest social problem in the world today? Some friends and I were talking about this recently, but we didn't come to any agreement. Whatever it is, do you think churches should be doing anything about it, or is it best left to governments?

I want to serve God, but we have five children and lots of debts.

I want to serve God, but we have five children and lots of debts. I don't see how I could ever be a pastor or go to seminary or anything like that. Do I just lack faith that God will provide for us? I don't think so, but sometimes I wonder if I'm on the right path.